The real story of true love a successful husband. This story could be a lesson for us all. Stories about how to appreciate and cherish what you have. Please direct listened to the story or the real story of true love on this one.
Eko Pratomo Suyatno, who does not know this humble man? His name frequently appeared in newspapers, television, in books and financial investment. He was the one behind the progress of the mutual fund industry in Indonesia and also a leader of a large mutual fund investment company in the country.
In a position like this, we may assume that this man would have been super busy with a myriad of busy schedules. But in this note I will not highlight his success as an executive. However, there is an incredible daily side !!!!
Age is not young anymore, 60 years. Mr. Suyatno still excited caring for his wife who was ill. They've been married over 32 years. Blessed with 4 children.
When his wife gave birth to a fourth child, her legs suddenly paralyzed and can not be moved. It happened during the 2 years, stepped in to three whole body becomes weak and even feels no bones, the tongue can no longer be moved.
Every day before leaving for work Mr. Suyatno alone bathing, feeding and lifted her onto the bed. He put her in front of the TV so that she does not feel lonely. Although she was not able to speak but always visible smile. Fortunately the office where Mr. Suyatno not too far from his home, so during the day can go home to feed her lunch.
Evening is scheduled to bathe her, change clothes and after sunset, he accompanied his wife to watch TV while the story all day activities. Although she could only respond through eye gaze, but once was enough for Mr. Suyatno fun. In fact, sometimes interspersed with his wife tease each goes to sleep. These routines performed by Mr. Suyatno approximately 25 years. With great patience he took care of his wife even while bringing up to 4 children. Now their children are grown, live the youngest who was in college.
One day ... when all gathered at the house to visit his mother, because after their children were married and living with their families, Mr. Suyatno decided he was the one taking care of their mother because he wants only one 'so that all children can succeed'.
With that sentence carefully enough, the eldest son said:
"Dad we'd love to take care of the mother, since we were kids, the father caring for the mother, no complaints at all out of the lips ...... even the father does not let us take care of mom." While the eldest tears welled.
"It's the fourth time we allow the father married again,
Our sense of mother would allow it, when the father enjoying old age, with a sacrifice like this, we've not bear to see the father,
we promise to take care of the mother as well as possible by turns ".
The eldest went on his petition.
"My children.... If marriage and live in this world just for lust, maybe the father will marry again, but know with your mother beside me, it was more than enough, she had given birth you....
I miss you guys were always present in this world with love that no one can be rewarded with anything. Will you ask your mother whether she wants the situation is like this ?? You want a happy father, whether spiritual father left your mother can be happy with the situation is like now, you want a father who was given God's health was treated by others, how the mother is still sick. "Mr. Suyatno answer completely unexpected children.
For a moment the children burst into tears, they also see tiny droplets falling on the eyelids mother Suyatno .. sadly staring eyes the beloved husband.
Until finally Mr. Suyatno invited by one of the private TV station to be a resource person and they ask questions to Mr. Suyatno why can survive for 25 years caring for his wife, who was not able to do anything .... that's when the guests burst into tears with present in the studio most of the women could not hold back emotion.
There is where Mr. Suyatno recalled: "If a man in this world glorifies love, but do not want to give time, energy, thought, attention that is vanity. I chose my wife became my life companion, and the wife as well, she patiently took care of me, love me with heart and inner, not with the eyes, and she gave me 4 kids .. Now when she hurt as a sacrifice for our love together ... and it is a test for me, if I can hold a commitment to love what they are. When healthy, I am not necessarily looking for another wife, especially her sick ... "she wept.
Source : http://ceritacinta-di.blogspot.com/2012/02/kisah-nyata-cinta-sejati-seorang-suami.html
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